The Fourth Sunday of Advent
“May it be done to me according to your word.” Lk. 1:38
It’s that most special of all times again – that time of wonder and joy and miracles.
Christmas is almost here.
And we know that not only because there’s seasonal music everywhere, but family celebrations are also being planned, holiday parties are demanding our attendance, and gifts still have to be wrapped.
We also know it because of another big hint – every media outlet is issuing its Top Ten of the year songs, movies, TV shows, books, pet names, and so on.
And it started me wondering:
What would be included if you and I identified our Top Ten Gospel quotations.
If we did, which ones would make it on to your list?
I know for sure that right at the very top of mine would be this marvelous, breathtaking statement:
“May it be done to me according to your word” – the words spoken by Mary to the angel Gabriel in today’s gospel; the words that opened the door to the possibility of you and me entering into an entirely new kind of relationship with God; the very words that changed history.
And one of the things I treasure most about this story of Mary and the angel is that before Mary is presented with God’s astounding request, Mary is first told: “Do not be afraid.”
Put yourself in her position. Wouldn’t you be afraid, even terrified?
In the Philadelphia Museum of Art there is an unusual painting of this classic Annunciation scene. In it, Mary is not depicted as a totally serene girl with a glowing halo kneeling in prayer, as we usually find her presented. Rather, Mary is shown to be sitting on her disheveled bed with unkempt hair, eyes frozen as if in terror, and her mouth agape as if she were dumbfounded.
The look on her face is that of someone both stunned and utterly confused.
And why wouldn’t she be?
God is asking the unimaginable of this young, uneducated, thoroughly unprepared girl. She is being visited by an angel … and she is being asked to do … what?
Of course, she was afraid – speechless, astonished, dazed.
After all, Mary was being asked to decide:
Act out of fear, or act out of faith; respond with terror, or respond with trust.
In a way, we’re all asked by life’s demands to make similar decisions – just not ones so unique and exceptional. All the major sins that you and I commit in life are ultimately grounded in fear. Fear is the number one “hostage-taker” for all of us – the fear that I won’t get enough love, enough affection, enough attention, enough power, enough money, enough …. Here we can fill in the blanks.
Mary’s response is really all about a reversal, a re-write. Adam and Eve’s “No” becomes a “Yes.” The world is now offered a new model, a new blueprint, a new design upon which human lives can be based.
Mary chose trust.
She chose to allow the angel’s words – as daunting as they were! – to soothe her anxieties, to calm her immediate fright, to enable her to reach out in confidence.
That’s why Mary is our Mother in faith. That’s why she is her Son’s ultimate disciple.
Mary chose trust over fear, belief over doubt, freedom over being held hostage.
And the result was the birthing of Jesus, God’s beloved Son.
We are now challenged by Mary’s example to do the same in each of our lives: trust, believe, hope, love.
That’s why I’d put these words at the very top of my Ten Best scripture quotes:
“May it be done to me according to your word.”
Ted Wolgamot, Psy.D.
